…But God
commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died
for us (Romans 5:7-8).
Some people believe anyone who isn’t like them has
a problem; they try to "change" other people or get them to measure
up to their standards. Having pastored for so many years, I’ve learnt that you
really can’t "change" anybody. The best thing is to see others the
way God sees them; love them the way they are.
God didn’t ask us to change so He could love us; He
loved us while we were yet sinners. He didn’t wait for us to become righteous
first; He loved us the way we were and sent Jesus to die in our place.
If God didn’t wait for us to "change"
first, before sending Jesus to die for us, then we must emulate the same in our
relationships. This doesn’t mean we don’t need to make changes in our lives or
expect changes in other people. The change we all need to embrace, however, is
that which helps us become even more gracious; that which helps us become more
and more of what God wants us to be: the expression of His glory,
righteousness, and love. You don’t need to "change" your neighbours,
friends, colleagues, spouse, etc.; just love them. They are all wonderful the
way they are.
Read what Paul said: "To the weak became I as
weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might
by all means save some" (1 Corinthians 9:22). That means he made
adjustments to accommodate other people. That’s for us to emulate.
Remember, before he learnt that, he was trying to
change other people. He was on his way to Damascus to "change" the
Christians, when the Lord called him and gave him his divine assignment (Acts
9:3-5), to turn the Gentiles from darkness to light, and from the power of
Satan unto God. But that was for a purpose; it was so the Gentiles may receive
forgiveness of sins, and an inheritance amongst them which are sanctified (Acts
26:18). It wasn’t so that He (God) could love the Gentiles more.
We can share God’s love—His Word with others— to
help them become what God wants them to be, not what we want them to be.
Prayer
Thank you Father, for helping me appreciate others
and value them for who they are. Thank you for your love that’s in my heart,
which I express to everyone around me today, through my words and actions, in
Jesus’ Name. Amen.
Further Study: Romans 5:5; 1 John 4:17
1 Year Bible Reading Plan : Philippians 4:4-23
Isaiah 42-43
2 Year Bible Reading Plan : Hebrews 1:1-14
Lamentation 2
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